Is Narateen For Me?
Wondering if Narateen is for you?
We know that having a loved one struggle with addiction can be really tough. That's where Narateen comes in.
We're here to support you and give you a place to share what you're going through.
You can find serenity whether the addict is using or not. Our program is based on the Twelve Steps of Nar-Anon which we try, one day at a time, to apply to our lives along with the slogans and the Serenity Prayer. Many of us have found help in dealing with addiction by working these steps. So much depends on our own attitudes as we learn to place our problems in their true perspective.
The loving interchange of experiences and daily reading of our literature make us ready to receive the gift of serenity. Keep an open mind and attend as many meetings as possible.
You will soon make new friends and will feel very much a part of the group.
Everything said in a meeting is held in confidence. In this way we can feel free to say what is on our minds and in our hearts. This is how we help one another in Narateen.
What is Narateen?
Narateen is a part of the Nar-Anon Family Groups. It's a support group just teens who have family or friends dealing with addiction.
Our meetings are a safe space where you can share your experiences, strength and Hope, while finding comfort in knowing you're not alone.
Why Join Narateen?
- Safe and Supportive Environment: Our meetings are a judgment-free zone where you can share your feelings and thoughts.
- Connect with Others: Meet other teens who understand what you're going through.
- Find Hope and Strength: Learn how to cope with the challenges of having a loved one with addiction.
How Does It Work?
In our meetings, we share openly and honestly about our experiences. You can share as much or as little as you want. Everything discussed in our meetings stays confidential, so you can feel safe sharing your feelings.
Is Narateen Right for You?
If you're a teen affected by someone else's addiction, Narateen is here for you. Whether you're feeling sad, angry, confused, or just need someone to share, you'll find support and understanding in our meetings.
Join Us
You're not alone. Join Narateen South Africa and connect with other teens who understand what you are going through. Find strength, hope, and fellowship to help you navigate this tough time.
For more information or to find a meeting near you, contact us or join a meeting.
Is Narateen For Me?
Narateen is for young people whose lives have been affected by someone else's drug use.
The following twenty questions are to help you decide whether or not Narateen is for you.
- Do you have a parent, close friend, or relative whose drug use upsets you?
- Do you cover up your real feelings by pretending you don't care?
- Does it seem like every holiday is spoiled because of the drugs?
- Do you tell lies to cover up for someone using drugs or what's happening in your home?
- Do you stay out of the house as much as possible because you hate it there?
- Are you afraid to upset someone for fear it will set them off to using drugs?
- Do you feel nobody really loves or cares what happens to you?
- Are you afraid or embarrassed to bring your friends home?
- Do you think the drug user's behavior is caused by you, other members of your family, friends, or tough
breaks in life? - Do you make threats such as, "If you don't stop using, fighting, etc; I'll run away"?
- . Do you make promises about behaviors such as, "I'll get better school grades, go to church or keep my
room clean", in exchange for a promise that the using and fighting stop? - Do you feel that if your Mom or Dad loved you, she or he would stop using?
- Do you ever threaten or actually hurt yourself to scare your parents into saying "I'm sorry" or "I love you"?
- Do you believe no one could possibly understand how you feel?
- Do you have money problems because of someone else's using?
- Are meal times frequently delayed because of the user?
- Have you ever considered calling the police because of the user?
- Have you refused dates out of fear of anxiety?
- Do you think if the user stopped using drugs, your problems would be solved?
- Do you ever treat people (teachers, classmates, teammates, etc.) unjustly because you are angry with someone else for using drugs?
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What you hear here,
When you leave here,
Let it stay here.